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When I Grow Up #WEChildhoodDream | QueenBeady

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Ever since I was a little girl I knew I wanted to write. Whether that be penning my own novel or casting my editorial eyes over the latest fashion magazine? It’s something that I’ve always been passionate about, you’d catch me making my own magazine’s as a little girl, using my set of Crayola’s and my latest notepad to create my imaginary editorial. I’d play Agony Aunt for the letters page, create my own short story, I’d even create my own mood board of things you should be buying. This was at a ripe age of six or seven. There wasn’t a week that went by that I didn’t pick up my issue of Girl Talk for inspiration (you know the one I mean!) When Workwear Express got in touch with me and asked ”what did I want to be when I grow up?” as part of the #WEChildhoodDream campaign, I knew the answer was easy because my love for the topic has always been apparent through my life.

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I’d love to write my own book, but you see I’m no philanthropic writer that uses big, incredulous words to sound like I know what I’m talking about, I write words that I hope people can connect with and not get lost anyone after the first sentence and be scratching their heads because it made no sense, I call it the ”Kevin McCloud” theory (nb. you know the guy of Grand Designs who goes on a torrent of strange reflection using big word after big word to describe something and suddenly the whole thing looses all sense of meaning. Yeah, that.)

I have this reoccurring thing that I start writing my own novels when on holiday, I’ll be sat on my sun lounger, cocktail in hand, watching the Grecian sun slowly set and I’ll keep this up for the full seven days often gloating to my husband how well it’s going and how I’m connecting with the characters and how much they all mean to me after such a short space of time. But as soon as I got home the notebook filled with all my words and little imaginary people I had created would go to the back of a cupboard and then the same thing would continue in to the next summer and then the next. I’d never finish one of them.

I decided that writing a book is not for me, I’m not cut out for it as my mind wanders & I need something fast paced. I think that’s why I have always been drawn to magazines, they’re short, snappy and to the point. That doesn’t mean I don’t like reading books but I’m enthralled by colour blazoned pages of fashion and style that find me reading a magazine quite easily, cover to cover, in fifteen minutes and feeling suitably cultured from it.

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My career didn’t quite take the path I thought it would, despite studying English right through to A-Level I eventually pursued another passion of mine that I’d also been studying, Travel & Tourism. I enrolled on an apprenticeship scheme which saw me train to become a Travel Agent. I loved my job & enjoyed sending people on their own trip of a lifetime, and it’s through this career that I saw myself on many holidays (writing said novels) However, I fell out of love with my career choice after seven years when the company I was working for started to make drastic cuts, travel isn’t a well paid sector and I decided it was time to make a change and jump in to the world of Experiential Marketing in 2014.

I guess because I didn’t go down the route of my desired job I’ve always felt like I was in a little rut, had I made the wrong decision not going to uni & persuing a fashion writing degree? Questions that plague my mind continuously from time to time but in truth, I can’t let it consume me as what’s done is done. I guess for me that natural extension of my passion for writing came with this blog. It became of my desire to create something with the written word and incorporate photography too. My two hobbies combined. And that is what it is, a hobby, but I feel so much excitement for the direction my blog is heading in that one day I hope that it doesn’t just have to be a hobby or sideline project. We have seen so many bloggers make a career for themselves out of it and that excites me. They don’t have fancy degree’s and that keeps me hopeful.

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Life doesn’t always take a road that you thought possible or the way you had expected or hoped but I’m getting to write about some of the things I have learnt in past careers, such as my love for travel which is a frequent topic on this blog too AND I get to do it whilst wearing pyjamas! Whilst I might not be on the particular career path I had wished for I am doing a darned good job of keeping it in grasp (or at least I hope I am!) and I will continue to work harder and harder on my blog to make sure that one day my goal is achieved.

Is your current career your dream job? Are you working hard to make it or have you simply changed paths and doing something completely different? I’d love to hear from you and read about your experiences too, so please leave me a comment below. I might not be the fancy magazine editor (yet) so at the moment, blogging will do…

Bee xxx

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20 responses to “When I Grow Up #WEChildhoodDream | QueenBeady”

  1. HonestMum Avatar

    Love this, you write like a dream and I’d love to read any book of yours. I have learnt to be flexible and open as I never thought I’d become blogger, particularly as I was a director before. I think every job I’ve had from teaching to working in a wine shop (hic) has contributed to my work and personality, today. I too used to make magazines as a child and I used to always pretend to be a teacher too turning the spare room into my classroom xx

    1. QueenBeady Avatar

      Oh Vicki,
      That means so much to me coming from you! Mrs Super Blogger ❤️ thank you!
      Sounds like we were both destined for similar things then, that was my favourite thing to do plus I made all my cousins play classrooms too! Haha!
      Bee xxx

  2. laura Avatar
    laura

    Personally I always thought I’d be a pop star. When I realised I didn’t have the voice for it I decided I wanted to be a journalist. I studied journalism at university but because I just couldn’t make the move to London I’ve ended up changing my career quite abit. But it has meant that I am able to work for a fashion company (which was my goal) and do things I love. It all works out in the end.

    1. QueenBeady Avatar

      Hi Laura

      It’s so interesting to hear your side of things & where you pursued your interest at degree level. An awful lot of it is down to being in the big smoke & I just don’t think I could do that.

      Your job is fab! I’d love to work in fashion too, you are so lucky ❤️

      My dream of also being on stage too was short lived. I did plenty of shows but soon quickly realised it wouldn’t be a steady income!

      Bee xxx

  3. Laura Flint Avatar
    Laura Flint

    Thanks for this post! It’s really amazing. I’m 2 months away from graduating with an English/Psychology degree and have no idea what to do next year! It’s so tough to decide whether to follow your passions or not. And, that said, which passions you should follow. I’ve always dreamt of working for a magazine but I’m not sure I’m cut out for it and also not sure which aspect I would like to work on! I’m also really enjoying blogging as a way to explore.

    1. QueenBeady Avatar

      Hi Laura
      I’m so glad that you enjoyed the post & I hope it went some way to help you decide what you want to do.
      I love blogging! Sadly heading the big smoke full time is not an option for me so this is the place I have total free reign of creating my own content without others breathing down my neck! It’s refreshing.
      I hope you manage to come to a happy conclusion once your degree is finished.
      Bee xxx

  4. Jessica Horton Avatar
    Jessica Horton

    I think that dreams and goals can change though or even evolve and take new forms and that is why you decided to take up travel and tourism instead. Even if you then realised that you still had a love for writing, you just extended your skill set and experienced something different. Sometimes taking a step back from what you thought you wanted can put everything into perspective for you as well. I went to university to study fashion design and before I went I couldn’t decide between design, English or photography. I ended up studying fashion as my nan and I would often create costumes and clothes together when I was younger and I knew I loved sewing.

    Unfortunately I quit my course due to mounting pressure and some personal issues that I needed to sort and went to work in the finance industry for a couple of years. I told myself that I was going to re evaluate my decisions and my life goal, I even contemplated going back to study English as I love writing as well! I wanted to do well whilst at my new job and the experience I gained was good, but in the end I went back to sewing. It took quitting university and gaining life skills to really realise that my passion lay in fashion and now I’ve gone back to it with a clear focus and determination to do better. If I had stuck to my course then it would have killed all the passion I had for that subject.

    I think you’ve actually done yourself a favour really and now you can really reach for what you want! Maybe you needed those holidays and this blog to explore your options. Your blog is amazing and your writing style is relaxed and easy to read. I think you have what it takes to succeed but you will evolve and so will your writing and I’m personally excited to see where your blog takes you! Good luck with it all, I believe you! 🙂

    Jess x
    http://www.diaryofabritgirl.co.uk

    p.s sorry for the long comment! I love a good discussion!

    1. QueenBeady Avatar

      I don’t even know where to begin Jess. Firstly, thank you. Thank you for your kind words & sharing your experience so rawly on my blog. It helps to know that it’s not just me who has questioned their own choices and it’s okay to wish for something different and come back to another passion later down the line. I love my blog & I personally feel this is why my writing skill set will always lie. I’m the boss and I can write whatever I choose. I like that. I loved being in travel, but sadly with bills to pay it just wasn’t cutting the mustard. So now I’m doing something I would never have dreamt possible & I love it. I’m so glad my blog is here for me to indulge in my favourite hobby, I don’t know what I would do without it ❤️ I’m so glad that you reignited your love & passion too, it just goes to show when something is right in front of us it’s hard to appreciate, taking that step back is sometimes what we all need – with a lot of aspects in life!
      Bee xxx

      1. Jessica Horton Avatar
        Jessica Horton

        You are always welcome Bee! Very wise words, I hope we both go from strength to strength and find success! I’m sure we will though 🙂

        xx

        1. QueenBeady Avatar

          You sound like someone I need to speak to when the going gets tough! Thank you so much xxx

  5. Lily Kittèn Avatar
    Lily Kittèn

    Yasss girl! I love that I can blog and write and enjoy that creative part of my aspirations whilst still doing a day job, and I think you’ve chatted about it perfectly. Obviously having dreams is important, but it’s also good to live those out through a balanced life which is exactly what I think you’ve captured perfectly. You got this!

    Lily
    LilyKitten.com x

    1. QueenBeady Avatar

      Hi Lily,
      Thank you so much! I completely agree. My blog is a great sideline, heck it’d be amazing if I could do it not just on a weekend or on a night but at the moment I’m okay with that.
      Your blog is amazing too, I love reading it.
      Bee xxx

  6. Sophie Cliff Avatar

    Good for you Bee – keep working at it! I think there is so much choice these days that it’s really difficult to decide what to focus on, but it sounds like you’ve found your goal 🙂

    Sophie Cliff

    1. QueenBeady Avatar

      Hi Sophie,
      Thank you so much sweet. It’s great that I can work on my blog the way I do. It’s opened so many doors & avenues that I never thought possible.
      Bee xxx

  7. Music and Eyeliner Avatar
    Music and Eyeliner

    I love your honesty here Bee. It’s okay to keep striving towards what we want,no matter where that path takes us.

    You’re an excellent writer (‘blogger’ if I need to say that instead, but I mean it when I say ‘writer’), I’m sure that one day you’ll be triumphant in achieving your goal.

    Faith xx
    Music and Eyeliner – a Leeds lifestyle blog

    1. QueenBeady Avatar

      Faith,
      That is so lovely. Thank you. I always put myself down when it comes to my writing but I realise that I have a passion & it is through this blog. It’s given me a voice and I love it. Thank you for all your support. If it wasn’t for your event last year I’m not sure where I would be with my blog, it gave me the belief that it’s something worth fighting for (especially if you make those wonderful friends along the way!)
      Bee xxx

      1. Music and Eyeliner Avatar
        Music and Eyeliner

        Oh my gosh, what a flipping brilliant thing to say! If Blog Yorkshire is even partially responsible for the greatness that is QueenBeady then it’s all worth it. Seriously, that’s literally heartwarming to know. You!! oh YOU. x xx

        1. QueenBeady Avatar

          Aw, honestly it really was. It brought me new friends and I’m forever grateful for that! Xxxx

  8. Beth Avatar

    I am just starting to pursue writing as a career (not through just my blog though I have to admit) but I’ll admit it’s all a bit by accident, I studied Countryside Management at Uni with a view to teaching that but it turns out that’s not really where my passion lies. I hope to go back to the countryside things at some point by writing about it instead (If Countryfile Magazine happen to be reading this, HI, I write stuff, employ me?) but I have to say that for someone who’s never really been career orientated, this is the happiest I’ve been about that aspect of my life in a long time!

    Being able to sit and write is something I find therapeutic but would never have though to do for a living until now but life has a funny old way of bringing you round to something you never really considered before and then showing you it is the best for you!

    This post is fantastic Bee and it’s nice to read that I’m not the only who isn’t really doing something she imagined she’d be doing in the past!

    Beth xx

    1. QueenBeady Avatar

      That sounds like you are doing what you love & it makes me so happy that you are happy doing what you are even if it wasn’t what you may have first expected you were going to do.

      I have my blog & I will keep working hard on it till I can one day make a career out of it, I’m very far off – I might not even get there but at the moment it’s nice to have a dream!

      Bee xxx

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